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Why I opened my own escort service

Tuesday, March 17th, 2009

I wish to thank Tracey for this blog post. She prompted me to blog about it.

She asked me, “Hey Michelle, How did you come to open your first escort business? What was your thought process behind it?”

So here is my answer to everyone…

I knew almost from the age of 8 or 9 that I wanted to own my own escort agency one day. I was too young to realize what it was all about, but a movie on TV got me hooked. I think it was more of a brothel type setting if memory serves me.

I didn’t remember my comment until a couple of years after I was no longer operating my 2nd agency, which was around 1997.

Fast forward from age 8 or 9 to 1988, I was sick & tired of going to the club & dancing, then going home with a guy (or bringing him home);  him sleeping with me & the next day he was GONE. No respect whatsoever, I was just being used for sex.

I started to get really pissed off at men & was even considering becoming a lesbian at that time LOL (nothing wrong with being gay, I’m just laughing because of how pissed off I was).

I had already found out what an escort agency was back in 1984 when I was 18 & looking for a job.

At that time I wasn’t prepared to become an escort, but once 1988 rolled around, I said “screw it”, I’m taking the plunge.

I was a VERY ambitious young woman who wanted to be very successful & make a TON of money, & I had always wanted to own my own business in the entertainment industry.

So I found an escort agency hiring in the local paper & got hired almost immediately.

I decided to quit my day job because there was no way I could work full time 9-5 & then work at night as an escort, it was just too much.

I tried being an escort, but within a month I realized I just wasn’t cut out to be one. It takes a very special person to be an escort.

While working at this escort service I would watch what was going on with the owners & support staff, & I realized they were mean people & a lot of the girls working as escorts weren’t being given a fair shot.

The hookerish types (usually girls who came from the streets or had a VERY LARGE mean streak) controlled the back room (meaning the girls) & intimidated them.

I have always had a soft spot for the underdog, so my heart went out to the escorts & I felt the desire to want to help them.

I also realized that an escort agency would technically be no different then running any other type of business & should be NO different then running a mainstream business (other then a few things here & there). I did find out later on it is a lot different then running a mainstream business, but I did merge the 2 concepts together.

In my head I was starting to mull this idea of opening up an escort service.

One of the drivers wanted to open his own escort agency, & asked me if I would do the phones for him.

I’m damm glad I went with my intuition & I turned him down. Something just didn’t seem right with him & later on he went on to try & close down my escort agency out of jealousy. I am not trying to brag, but other escort agencies often wanted to cut me out as their competition.

At the time I didn’t realize this driver wanted to pay me was peanuts, so all & all it was best I had turned him down.

Things didn’t go well with this escort service I was working with. As in typical escort industry fashion, 2 of the hookerish types didn’t like me standing up to them, so they eventually got me fired. LOL, yeh, can you believe getting fired from an escort agency of ALL things????

But like everything, everything happens for a reason.

From there I found another escort agency, & within 2-3 months I found someone to help train me on the phones & I opened my FIRST ever escort service. I was soooo EXCITED!!! I can still remember the feeling 🙂

As they say, “the rest is history“.

Of course I had to learn the hard way how to make the agency into a REAL business that was professional, ethical & run properly because there really was no such animal. I was the only escort agency that really cared about all aspects of running that business.

As you already know, I now help others to open their own professional ethical escort service.

So, I hope this gives you some insight into how I got into the escort industry & how I hope all you nice people out there help me in cleaning up the escort industry.

Thank you for listening 🙂

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Deborah Jeane Palfrey

Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008

This post is in memory of Deborah Jeane Palfrey

Like all things in life, there is the positive & the negative, ying & yang, comfortable & uncomfortable.

I don’t consider death to be negative, as it is just a part of Universal life, but in this case perhaps Deborah wasn’t ready to pass over yet, & she shouldn’t have had to make that choice one way or another.

I know how Deborah felt in some way, I myself always said that if they were going to cart me off to jail for doing nothing wrong, I would NOT be able to live amongst the criminals as I was NOT one, I decided I would end my life so I didn’t have to be imprisoned like some animal.

Lucky for me I didn’t have to make that choice, but Deborah did.

She was used & abused by American society’s VIOLENT need to string someone up or burn them at the stake.

The American people seem to always have this need to blame others because they can’t just live their own lives without sticking their nose into other people’s business.

Anyone bored with their lives? Do you feel the need to pretend you know the difference between right & wrong?

You don’t know the difference between right & wrong because there is no right & no wrong. Everyone has their own version of what makes them feel comfortable & not comfortable, & that is their choice as free spirited humans.

If something makes you feel uncomfortable you DON’T have to do, watch, read, talk about it, etc.

What makes you feel comfortable & happy I encourage you to watch, read & talk about.

You don’t have any right to judge others, & to blame Deborah for running an escort service is like blaming the woman who got raped because she wore a low cut top.

SHE has the right to dress sexy & NOT be raped, & Deborah had the right to run her business as she saw fit.

From what I know (I did not know her personally), she sounded to me like a nice person.

Was she opened minded?

Yes, so?

She was like me in that she felt there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with running an escort service so long as it’s run in a professional ethical manner.

I don’t care who her clients were & neither should you.

If you are the wife of one of her clients, then perhaps you feel (assuming you didn’t know your husband saw escorts) abandoned, lied to, cheated on, & I don’t blame you for your feelings, but I can tell you right now, that it’s probably better that he saw an escort, then had a mistress.

Deborah should NOT be blamed for your husband’s actions, they are his actions & his alone.

If your relationship had issues, those issues belong to you two, & have NOTHING to do with Deborah & her escort service.

She didn’t solicit him, put a gun to his head, etc. etc.

You have no right to blame someone else for someone else’s actions. That’s not even logical.

I don’t pretend to know what happened with Deborah’s case, all I know is that instead of the police & the DA concentrating on real criminals who do people physical harm, steal people money or materialistic objects, they feel the need to chase after business people who are running a business.

The escort industry in one form or another has been around since anywhere from 2400 B.C. to 1780 B.C. Because it’s been around for so long it should be respected, but alas <sigh>, the entire profession & industry has been cheapened & scorned for the last 100 years or so.

I’ll leave you with my thoughts.

Thank you