This post is in memory of Deborah Jeane Palfrey
Like all things in life, there is the positive & the negative, ying & yang, comfortable & uncomfortable.
I don’t consider death to be negative, as it is just a part of Universal life, but in this case perhaps Deborah wasn’t ready to pass over yet, & she shouldn’t have had to make that choice one way or another.
I know how Deborah felt in some way, I myself always said that if they were going to cart me off to jail for doing nothing wrong, I would NOT be able to live amongst the criminals as I was NOT one, I decided I would end my life so I didn’t have to be imprisoned like some animal.
Lucky for me I didn’t have to make that choice, but Deborah did.
She was used & abused by American society’s VIOLENT need to string someone up or burn them at the stake.
The American people seem to always have this need to blame others because they can’t just live their own lives without sticking their nose into other people’s business.
Anyone bored with their lives? Do you feel the need to pretend you know the difference between right & wrong?
You don’t know the difference between right & wrong because there is no right & no wrong. Everyone has their own version of what makes them feel comfortable & not comfortable, & that is their choice as free spirited humans.
If something makes you feel uncomfortable you DON’T have to do, watch, read, talk about it, etc.
What makes you feel comfortable & happy I encourage you to watch, read & talk about.
You don’t have any right to judge others, & to blame Deborah for running an escort service is like blaming the woman who got raped because she wore a low cut top.
SHE has the right to dress sexy & NOT be raped, & Deborah had the right to run her business as she saw fit.
From what I know (I did not know her personally), she sounded to me like a nice person.
Was she opened minded?
Yes, so?
She was like me in that she felt there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with running an escort service so long as it’s run in a professional ethical manner.
I don’t care who her clients were & neither should you.
If you are the wife of one of her clients, then perhaps you feel (assuming you didn’t know your husband saw escorts) abandoned, lied to, cheated on, & I don’t blame you for your feelings, but I can tell you right now, that it’s probably better that he saw an escort, then had a mistress.
Deborah should NOT be blamed for your husband’s actions, they are his actions & his alone.
If your relationship had issues, those issues belong to you two, & have NOTHING to do with Deborah & her escort service.
She didn’t solicit him, put a gun to his head, etc. etc.
You have no right to blame someone else for someone else’s actions. That’s not even logical.
I don’t pretend to know what happened with Deborah’s case, all I know is that instead of the police & the DA concentrating on real criminals who do people physical harm, steal people money or materialistic objects, they feel the need to chase after business people who are running a business.
The escort industry in one form or another has been around since anywhere from 2400 B.C. to 1780 B.C. Because it’s been around for so long it should be respected, but alas <sigh>, the entire profession & industry has been cheapened & scorned for the last 100 years or so.
I’ll leave you with my thoughts.
Thank you
Michelle
