Archive for the ‘Michelle’s Views on Society’ Category

A woman’s right to her own body

Thursday, September 16th, 2010

A woman (or a man) owns their own body, mind, & spirit, but unfortunately many different sectors within society still feel differently.

The governments of most countries feel they have the right to tell women what they can & can’t do with their bodies. Many times they use the media & religious or fanatical groups to do their bidding in controlling others. Bullying & brainwashing has always been an effective way to control a human being.

The only person who knows what’s best for you is YOU. It’s unfortunate that society in general has made people believe that they know what’s best for you. Of course that’s how they keep you inline & try to make you the same as every other human out there.

I may not agree with what some people do to their bodies, but I have no right to judge that person for being different than me. It may make me feel uncomfortable, but that’s my issue I have to deal with & I can’t force someone else to be like ME. That person can ONLY be like themselves.

So while I don’t feel that real escorting has anything to do with selling one’s body (those are hookers), if a woman consents to letting a man touch her, guess what, that’s HER CHOICE & she should be free to make that choice because she’s a free human being.

So women, the next time you let others speak for you, think about what you are giving up in your life. You are giving up your free will as a human being to live your life as you dream. Do you want to fit in & be unhappy because you aren’t doing what you want in life & are clearly being controlled, or do you want to stand up for your right as a free spirit & life your life as you see fit with all the mistakes that you learn from & the joy of being happy?

People who are more aggressive will try to control you & they may succeed because you let them, so the only way to get out of that situation is to NOT let them control you, your choices in life & your body.

It all starts upstairs with your emotions. If you think what you are doing is wrong, then it is, if you think what you are doing is okay for you, then it is. The masses who are controlling & angry will try to overpower you & YOU are the only one who can decide whether they succeed or not.

It still amazes me that it’s the year 2010 & in the US & in several other dictatorship type countries the government & society (women try to control women too) are still trying to control women so they can put them in this little box.

Oh my god, what if they got out??? Where would we be then?


It’s 2010…

Monday, September 13th, 2010

It’s 2010 & women are STILL being told what they can & can’t do with their own body or time.

While women have made some progress over the last 80+ years or so, for the most part so called democratic societies (mainly in the US) STILL think they have the right to tell women what they can & can’t do with their time & body.

Women, YOU own your body, NO ONE ELSE DOES!!!

The way I see it, governments, politicians, religion & the law like to control human beings. Free? I don’t see human beings being free at all. Ever look around & count the hundreds of thousands of laws that are out there that control you?

Then they try to convince the masses that this is in their best interests when really it’s just a way for others in power to to control the average subset of society that aren’t smart enough to stand up for their rights.

You can’t confine a human being & then tell them it’s in their own best interests. Humans weren’t meant to be locked up or be watched 24/7. Even animals can’t handle that.

Back to women & how society continues to degrade them…

2 days ago I was talking to a man in the UK who provides sensual massages – mainly for men, but sometimes for women.

He told me a story about how when he was taking an advanced course to learn how to do elevated massage, one of his classmates & friend (a woman) were sitting down & talking with another woman who was also taking the course. Both him & his friend were already using massage for therapeutic sensual sexual reasons. This other classmate who wasn’t using massage for this purpose wanted to understand exactly what they were doing with their clients, so he & his friend told her.

They were both sitting right next to one another & YET the woman asking the question ONLY turned to his female friend & said, “Oh, so you are a prostitute!”

He was shocked because she didn’t say a word to him. She didn’t accuse him of any such thing, it was ONLY the woman she attacked & was clearly angry with.

This story just shows you how society (both men & women) STILL thinks women are second class citizens & when they do the exact same thing as men, they are judged, but the man isn’t.

It’s sad that whenever a female is involved in the adult industry or even pseudo adult industry in any area, they are attacked, yet when the man participates in it, it’s considered NO BIG DEAL!

So women are still judged for their sexuality & many times also judged if they have any interest in sexuality as a topic to study, educate others on, & men are not.

This is no different than the time I was shocked to learn there are about 15-18 different ways to call a woman a slut, but only 2-3 ways to call a man a slut.

Comments anyone?


TV & Movies only show you the worst

Sunday, September 12th, 2010

TV & Movies usually only show you the worst when it comes to the escort industry. They do this in order to make tantalizing TV. I also feel they do this to put fear into you because society has preconceived notions about the escort industry.

Some are accurate because society allows criminals to get involved in the escort industry & they make escorts feel guilty, ashamed or dirty for what they are doing. Many of their other depictions are not true.



Thursday, December 31st, 2009

I have to talk about the subject of infidelity because it just amazes me how immature society within America really is.

While I in NO WAY feel that cheating on one’s spouse, common-law or girl/boyfriend is a positive way to have a relationship, I say GIVE ME A BREAK.

First of all, humans weren’t meant to be monogamous, many ions ago the church decided that’s how they would control their people, so they brainwashed everyone into behaving like they were told. Well you can’t squeeze a square peg into a round hole, so that’s the first thing. And, most men like variety in women.

That coupled with the commonly known fact that over time numerous relationships on both sides die down in the sex & excitement department, & it’s just a given that people are going to cheat.

AND, people think ONLY men cheat which is ridiculous. Do you know how many women cheat on their husbands online?

Do you know how many women have given birth to other men’s children over the last 3000 years & their husbands thought the children were theirs?

My point is, if humans weren’t meant to be monogamous, then they WILL seek out other partners. I say it’s better for them to see escorts where there is little to no emotional attachment, then a mistress that may go crazy on him & not just ruin his life, but hurt his family.

It just sickens me every single time I see the news media plastering famous people’s infidelity all over the Internet like they are now doing with Tiger Woods, AND then the people who respond to the articles by commenting giving shit to these people who cheated, as if they went out & murdered or raped someone.

I’m not saying it doesn’t hurt his wife or children, but it’s THAT family’s business, NOT the entire US of A’s, I don’t care how famous the guy is. That doesn’t give you guys the right to hound him, string him up by his heels & burn him at the stake like you have done for soooo many centuries. This is the year 2010 isn’t it??? Maybe I’m just imagining the year.

In many countries within Europe (especially France), men have mistresses, & their wives know about it & have no problem with it, but once again, North Americans are uncultured, judgmental & love to cast their wrath down upon others instead of minding their own business & working on their OWN relationships.

And then you wonder why there is so much violence, divorce & unhappiness within North America. Look in the mirror people!


End of my rant